Moving aside, he shows a teenage girl unconscious on a sofa behind him. “Guess what I’m going to do to her?” he asks, then disappeared off-camera and returned with a pillow, a blanket and a cup of water. “Real men treat women with respect,” he concludes. Stendal told KIRO Radio, “It’s upsetting to me to see all the victim blaming that’s going on online…I was not expecting this reaction. I’m just happy that with this video we’re changing the discussion from what she could have done to what we should be doing for her when she’s passed out.”