When women are young, available, and hot, they want a guy who exudes what I call the “power aura.” Young…
I prefer men who are kind and treat me with respect. I believe most women feel the same. Even though…
I have some advice for you that you may not have thought of. What you and many other women should…
In 1999, when my boyfriend of three years broke up with me to marry another girl, I was very deeply…
Dear Dategirl, Are you as fun in person as your column is? (I’m new to it.) Would you like to…
I am in my early 30s. I am educated, have a good job, and own my own condo; I take…
I’ve been dipping back into the dating pool over the last year and posting some online personals. (I’m 43 and…
This week’s column was incredibly easy to write. I received a deluge of mail, which translates to very little work…
Sex Advice Columnist Judy, Three weeks ago, I started seeing this girl who lives here in Seattle. I’m worried because…
I have heard that many women pine over finding Mr. Right. I can’t presume to be Mr. Right myself, but…
Way back when I was just an innocent little lamb, I had a very sweet boyfriend we’ll call Chico. I’d…
I’m dating this guy who hasn’t been active in years. He tried to kill himself by jumping off a bridge…
A couple weeks ago a guy e-mailed just to tell me that I sucked. Now this is not an unusual…
I’ve been flirting with a guy at my office for almost a year. Then, one day after a work-sponsored beach…
Just after 9/11, I fell in love with a Seattle girl. We went back to her boat the same night…
Dear Readers, I’m cranky, broke, and depressed. It’s cold, it’s rainy, and I’ve got nobody to love. As I just…
As weird as this may seem, even though I am not all that attracted to my girlfriend, we have really…
I know you have discussed the attractiveness of confidence in several columns, and, in fact, you’ve even recommended a person…
For some damn reason, it seems like the last few women I’ve been involved with had messed-up childhoods and had…
I am a 21-year-old guy and find myself attracted to older women. My question is, where do I go to…